Five networking tips from șìÌÒÊÓÆ” President Dr Yvonne Thompson
The power of networking to elevate your career is a theme close to the heart of șìÌÒÊÓÆ”âs new President Dr Yvonne Thompson CBE DL (she gave some brilliant tips at the șìÌÒÊÓÆ” Fellowsâ dinner in Coventry).
âI think networking is very underrated. I think it should be part of peopleâs [employment] contract. If you do it in the right way, you never know who youâre going to meet thatâs going to make a huge difference to you, your project or whatever youâre doing.â
So, what are the top tips this savvy networker would pass on to project professionals?
1. Go on a networking course
Donât dismiss networking as something that you shouldnât be interested in doing (especially as it can be an excruciating experience for so many of us). Instead, view it as something that is so important that you really shouldnât be avoiding it.
âEveryone should actually go on a networking course or be encouraged to network at least once a month, otherwise you might as well just be remote working,â she says.
Even if youâre wedded to the idea of remote working, remember that meeting up with colleagues in real life is something that canât truly be replaced. So, if you need help with your networking skills, seek out help from those who excel at it.
2. The three Ps of networking
For those to whom the art of networking doesnât come naturally, Dr Thompsonâs advice is clear â approach it with passion, purpose and positioning (the three Ps, as she calls it). The passion part needs little explaining (capitalise on your enthusiasm for your job, your project or whatever gets you motivated), but the purpose aspect requires you to consider ahead of time who you want to meet, why you are going â and who might want to meet you.
Positioning is about what level you want to network at â is it your peers you want to chat to? People younger than you, to find out what they can teach you? Or perhaps itâs making yourself known to those higher up the ladder?
âI always think about trying to network up,â Dr Thompson says. Be focused on which networking opportunities you think would benefit you â and how. Thereâs no point wasting your time and energy on events that wonât benefit you.
3. Use WhatsApp
Networking on LinkedIn isnât as effective as you might think, says Dr Thompson.
âPeople will say âletâs connectâ, and either they do connect straight away or they totally forget to accept you. Iâm sitting there waiting for them to connect and theyâve forgotten. LinkedIn is dependent on enthusiasm and memory,â she says.
But if you network through WhatsApp, itâs easy, she explains.
âGo into your WhatsApp settings and there is a QR code there right next to your name, and all people have got to do is scan that QR code and they go straight into your WhatsApp contacts.â
Try it at the next event you attend and see if it works.
4. Listening is as important as speaking
When it comes to effective communication, there is a saying that youâve got two ears and one mouth, and you should use them in that in order, Dr Thompson says. In any conversation, âlisten more and talk less, or listen first before you speak. I think thatâs really important as far as communication is concerned.â
Active listening, where youâre really paying attention to someone and taking in what they are saying, rather than worrying about the next thing youâll say, takes practice. Not only will you follow up with relevant questions, but it will make you feel more relaxed too â the other person will feel they have your undivided attention.
5. Connecting is powerful
âI love making connections,â says Dr Thompson. That means making new ones, but also sharing the ones you have.
âPeople always say, why do you always give your contacts away? Well, theyâre not mine. They can connect with who they want to,â she explains. âI think itâs a really powerful thing to do to help people â if I canât do something [to help someone], then I usually know someone who can.â
The lesson here? Not only will you feel good about supporting others, but that help might come back to you in the future.
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Read Projectâs Big Interview with Dr Thompson in the Autumn 2024 issue.
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So important yet not natural for many and itâs that fear of the unknown but as with most things the reality is far less scary than your mind imagines it to be. I like the helping people out part and that can be in all types of manner not always work based too. I do this because it feels right and often it doesnât come back around but thatâs ok too. Some reciprocation one day may be the icing but never the why.
Very nicely written and loved all the tips specially using social media to connect. However, most importantly is to connect with an open mind to accept the different other!
Great read!! will practice the 3 Ps on my next networking event Any suggestions for networking courses?